Why to say I hate or I shall never meet or it’s a time out with…etc (A person)? In other words, mean to cut someone out of one’s life. Firstly, there is always a reason for any association. There is something in that person which sort of fills the jig-saw puzzles within us. Of course this applies to the connections which stick on to us since donkey’s years. And secondly relations are not child’s play that ends after you grow out of its novelty.
If there is a fundamental flaw in the purpose, it has to lapse. Like, if the motive is selfish, intentionally temporary, replacement of someone else in ones life, etc. it ends. Reason for the correlation defines the end.
People, who claim they have forgotten someone, often talk more about them since their stated split up. Or worse, a sense of retribution gives their happiness to that person. Indeed an associate, friend or foe is never forgotten.
It affirms one thing. There is definitely some reason why people never forget a person once associated with. It is advisable to forget the past in stead. People stay forever, times change! So blame it on the past and start afresh if there comes a time when one reconsiders the association.
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You seem wounded. I hope things are ok. I agree when you say that the reason for correlation defines the end. But not always...relationships often get so complicated that the correlation to begin with may be lost in the vastness of the complexity. True?
of course everything is fine.. this thought has been in my mind since a long time and i just penned it down sometime now... btw.. there is actually no relation of one being wounded.. its more to do with one's acceptance power!! :-)
and with that perspective in mind.. acceptance should be so powerful that it should be capable of overcoming the comlexities// true???
I feel there should be no or very less expectations ..
trust as per me is expecting someone to do/behave as per some preconceived
expectation in a given situation ..
less the expectations .. less would be mistrusts .. and would be much easy to not get wounded ...
Absolutely right dear boobie!! :-) I am just surprised with your thoughts!! I totally agree by what you say!!! In my opinion expectation leads only to frustration!!! What say???
yeah ... not that it alwayz lead to frustration .. but whenever frustration comes expectation always one of the root cause ..
advantages of no/less expectations:
1] good things come as sweet surprises
2] bad things don't hurt
btw y did u get surprised :P [btw there were no expectations of you not getting surprised :)]
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