Wednesday 26 April 2023

Which dog should I get as my first pet and what to expect?

 FnAQ: I have a 5 year old daughter who has been behind me for over a year to bring home a pet dog. I have never had a pet dog before but I love dogs in general. Which dog should I get as my first pet and what to expect? 


Short Answer: Any breed that is suitable for therapy will be the best option as your first pet dog especially with a child. Depending on your home size, select a suitable breed. You can Goggle it, but for your reference: Golden retriever (most recommended), Labrador retriever, German Shepherd, French Bulldog, Beagle, Pug, etc. 


Long Answer: Bringing in a pet is like brining home a child. You will need to do a lot of care taking and parenting before the pet becomes a part of the family. Do not go by how pets are portrayed in movies or in books, it's fiction after all! If you are willing to bring in a pet dog for your daughter's wish, you should be prepared for doing all the legwork and model how to take care of someone whose life depends on your care taking. The basic things you'll need to have before you bring in your pet home are as follow:

- Vet in your locality for vaccinations and checkups

- Dog food & bowl

- Bed 

- Leash & collar

- Dog shampoo and brush

- Poop collecting bags or tool and pee pads

- Chew toys and edible sticks (puppies bite all the time while teething)

- At least one ball 

You will immediately need to start toilet training and engage in basic training of commands. If you can afford, it is advisable to hire a professional dog trainer for your own learning. If not, you will find a lot of tutorials online. But do all of this before the dog comes home. All in all, it is a great thing that you want to bring in a pet dog! 

Hope this helps! 

Lots of love!  

Sunday 16 April 2023

'Click' is not enough

 


Shortest tragedy? "We just click!"

Ladies and Gentlemen! Boys and Girls! 

Click is not enough! (Fill in the blanks alternatives - love, align, vibe and all those feelings that we use to self negotiate! 😉)

Riddle me this: Can you tick these? 

  • Good emotional regulation
  • Fair conflict resolution
  • Healthy stress management
  • Focus on emotional and physical health
  • Ability to admit mistakes and apologise
  • Express and respect basic needs 
  • Empathy and understanding
  • Open communication
You should be able to tick these! 

End of story! "Thank you!" 


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